Dear De'kra,
Ah yes, I forgot, you aren't familiar with human terms. A father is a male parent. Did you have parents when you were young? The mature male who helps take care of you is the father figure. Grandfather is the father of my Father. My Father is a Shaman, but my Grandfather was a Sage. I am following in the footsteps of my Grandfather by becoming a Sage as well.
Yes, I do have quite a bit of experience in this world, but my Sage training has kept me from gaining very much experience in what you speak of. Still, I do know the answer to your question, but if I'm going to have this talk with you, I'd prefer it to be in person. All I'll say is that the difference between males and females is what causes the Love Plague to be so prevalent in the Hall. Although I really shouldn't call it a 'plague'. Love really can be a wonderful thing - it just gets out of hand sometimes, much like other human emotions.
That is true. By ridding the world of an evil person like Mr. Shawe, you are able to save countless others from his treachery. Still, it should be done with justice in mind, and not revenge.
That's too bad. I actually sent her a message earlier today - I certainly hope it didn't distract her if she was in battle. If I see her in the Hall, I'll be sure to ask her to send you a message.
Your Friend,
Tomas