moja,
you know this board hasn't any strict rulez...
but if you compare your style of posting to the other people's style than you will see, that your posts are overusing smilies and are often exaggerated...
don't takes this bad, but maybe you could make less use of such things, cause it makes (a) your posts more easy to read and ( b ) IF you use smilies we see that you want to say something special with them in that case.
the same for the post icons. they aren't supposed to be used in every post, the sense of them is to symbolize that a thread or post is more important than others...
the sense of this hints is to make our communication here easier and uncomplicated, i don't want to hurt or bother you, so please don't be upset or ashamed, think about it! ;) (this last smilie e.g. has a sense: it should tell you that this wasn't a "warning" or something like that, no it is a tipp i would like to give to you!)