Hi Zblj!
Well, I already tried a few different ones. I assume with your experience the suggestion means there actually are pairs that are tight enough, right? I had just given up searching after a few failed attempts.
I tried assembling an 8043 (that I got from ebay) last night and I find the instructions on page 36 of the first manual somewhat puzzling.
You can find it at brickinstructions.
It seems the tiny 8 teeth gear just goes on the end of the three long axle and there is nothing to secure it further.
Now I have some light gray 8 tooth gears where this works reasonably well but the darker gray one just falls off.
What am I doing wrong?