update: wow what a great lego. you guys were right better off with the 8043, my friend got the 42006 and yeah there's quite a difference in size. i had one issue, the raising and lowering of the main arm was painfully slow, i unhooked the two LA's and noticed they were not quite synced up, i tightened them both up and reconnected them and then no problem. that function could be a little faster as it doesn't match the speed of the middle lever on the arm but oh well no big deal.
the huge shovel is weird, it seems more fitting for the B model, i contemplated getting a smaller shovel for it from another set and instead decided to take the grabber from the 42006 and put it on the 8043. works great! and it's a -much- more fun toy now. with the big shovel you couldn't really pick anything up cleanly.. with the claw its great, there's so many things it can pick up, candies, legos, rocks, etc.. i find it a lot more fun with the claw.
thanks for the advice!