Chuck Posted October 8, 2007 Posted October 8, 2007 (edited) I will try as hard as I can to express the remorse I have for my actions in the past years that I have been a member here. I have done many unspeakable things while being a member here, such as flame another person's creation, borrow another person's design and not give due credit, and in general being an megablocks. I say to all of you, not only those who I have wronged, but everyone, because if I hurt one person, it hurts the whole community, as we are a family. I apologize to those whose creations I have cast aside as being "unworthy", even though all creations are worthy and should be given proper care to. I apologize to anyone who I have mocked. I apologize to the Admins, who have had to put up with my childish antics for some time now. And last but not least, I apologize to all the members as a whole, for just not being the good member I should be. For instance, I may think that I am "all that" because I have a way with building well and have some good designs. But that is not being a good member, being a good member is helping other members, posting news, and having a good additude in general. If there is anyone else who I have wronged in the past, please come forth in this topic or through PM, MSN, or AIM (if privacy is an issue) so that I may apologize to you directly. If you want me to put it simply, I am sorry. -Chuck Edited October 8, 2007 by Chuck Quote
gylman Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 L2K, we all hope to grow and be better every day than the previous. Sometimes our growing up is more public than others, but we all do change over time, and hopefully for the better. I for one want you to stay at EB. Quote
Chuck Posted October 9, 2007 Author Posted October 9, 2007 L2K, we all hope to grow and be better every day than the previous. Sometimes our growing up is more public than others, but we all do change over time, and hopefully for the better. I for one want you to stay at EB. Unfortunatley, that is not for me to decide. Only time will tell, my friend. -Chuck Quote
Sir Dillon Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 You haven't offended me personally at all, but thanks for apologizing nonetheless. Yeah, so you can be a megablock at times, but most of us are at one time or another. Overall I think you're a good member (and one heck of a builder ;-)), so hopefully you'll be able to stick around. Cheers. Quote
Corvus Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 You haven't offended me personally at all, but thanks for apologizing nonetheless.Yeah, so you can be a megablock at times, but most of us are at one time or another. Overall I think you're a good member (and one heck of a builder ;-)), so hopefully you'll be able to stick around. Cheers. I agree. I haven't been insulted either, but it's great to see that you're going to the trouble of apologising. A few members I've seen on another forum either just leave or forget about it. :-/ Quote
Shadows Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 A nice gesture that will hopefully turn into a meaningful change. Personally, I'm an unending ray of sunshine in an otherwise gloomy world, bringing joy and happiness upon all I survey *wacko* , so I can't understand negativity, but I can certainly forgive it as human nature. That said, you've never offended me directly either, keep up the good work! *y* Quote
Sir Dillon Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 While I think this is a nice topic and all, does it really need to be pinned? :-/ Quote
DoubleT Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Well mate, there is much to this then just this topic.. And it shows that an apology goes a long way..... So it reminds us to be nice to each other, or els its not worth it... Quote
Lord Thrawn Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Chuck, I hope I speak for the forum when I say apology accepted. I've seen you mature both in terms of manners and building (and considering you're still one of the younger ones you still have a long time to improve further) and I can happily say you've become a good member (at least to me). Here's to even more progress. *sweet* Quote
SirNadroj Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 I appreciate your apology. *sweet* But why now? Did you have an epiphany? X-D Quote
Lt. Col. Thok Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Apology accepted! X-D C'mon, guys! Chuck's been a bit of a smartass, but so have I! SO, lets pardon him! Quote
Brick Miner Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Unfortunatley, that is not for me to decide. Only time will tell, my friend.actually, i think it is for you to decided... we all decided how we act, and have to accept the consiquences of those choices. i'd say you're on the path to being a very respected member of the AFOL community. so, it seems you are choosing the right path, and if so, you will be accepted here on EB whenever you chose to visit *sweet* - BrickMiner Quote
VBBN Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Wait.. Were you in the TC or something? Did the mods warn you? Oh, and on-topic- If you did offend/dis anyone, I'm sure they will forgive you. Just be careful of your actions. *sweet* Quote
Norro Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 No worries, L2K, keep building! Everyday is a new day... Sorry if I wasn't more friendly towards you! God Bless, Nathan Quote
LuxorV Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Maybe we started with a somewhat harsh discussion on the "What about LEGO Halo" tread, but that was two-ways :-$ . Then I think we came to know more each other, and I find you are a nice guy (when you control your temper ;-) ) and an ace builder. So I'm glad I know you and I hope to see your creations again here on EB, and to get some advices from you, too. As for the apology, I don't think you need to apologize to me directly, but, as EB member, of course I accept it :-$ . You know, to recognize your mistakes is a sign you've started improving ;-) . LuxorV Quote
Opproperaar Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 (edited) I have no knowledge of whatever it is that you have done and now regret. For all I'm concerned you're ok. *y* I'm only a new member here and you've been around much longer than I have, even so, it's nice you apologize to everybody instead of just the people you (might?) have offended. Actual jerks wouldn't do so, this alone proves you aren't one. Personally, I haven't even talked to you since I registered, so I don't hold a grudge against you and I don't think you're a bad person. Hope they don't ban you. *y* (though I seriously do not have a clue what you are referring to with this topic :-/ ) Edited October 10, 2007 by Hairy Ruben Quote
Siegfried Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Since we have had several discussions in the past that border on being debates I'd just like to say that I have never been personally offended by you. While we don't always agree I do think you do add to this site, especially with your MOCs as you are one of those builders who like building in ways that annoy me! :-D Hopefully we all can get on better in the future and focus on what is important... Lego! :-P Quote
trooperdavinfelth Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 I have no knowledge of whatever it is that you have done and now regret. For all I'm concerned you're ok. *y* I'm only a new member here and you've been around much longer than I have, even so, it's nice you apologize to everybody instead of just the people you (might?) have offended. Actual jerks wouldn't do so, this alone proves you aren't one. Personally, I haven't even talked to you since I registered, so I don't hold a grudge against you and I don't think you're a bad person.Hope they don't ban you. *y* (though I seriously do not have a clue what you are referring to with this topic :-/ ) Allow me to explain: He basically writes responses to other people on EB when they make MOCs and write threads about them, and he pretty much trashes them because they don't look like what he would have made them into. Of course, no one else trashes his MOCs when he makes threads for them, so this is basically just, well, I don't really know. I don't MOC, so I haven't come under his reign of terror so I wouldn't know. I really don't know why he does it; no one ever insulted one of his works. So I say this to him: Live and let live. You MOCs are still alive, but you kill other MOCs. That's against the figure of speech which is why I never understood you. So apologize ON! *y* Quote
Opproperaar Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Allow me to explain: He basically writes responses to other people on EB when they make MOCs and write threads about them, and he pretty much trashes them because they don't look like what he would have made them into. Of course, no one else trashes his MOCs when he makes threads for them, so this is basically just, well, I don't really know. I don't MOC, so I haven't come under his reign of terror so I wouldn't know. I really don't know why he does it; no one ever insulted one of his works. So I say this to him: Live and let live. You MOCs are still alive, but you kill other MOCs. That's against the figure of speech which is why I never understood you. So apologize ON! *y* Ah, well I do think that being harsh on someone just cause you wouldn't have built it the way he/she did is a dumb reason, but sometimes (and I have to confess guilty myself here) I'm feeling a bit of insincere friendlinnes towards people with really crappy MOCs and people still give them compliments. Quote
trooperdavinfelth Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 I agree with you; He is a superb builder, very skillful, and it's kind of this: 'I'm the best, and since I'm the best, I can say whatever I want to you unskillful woefully underpayed temps!' :-P Ok, maybe a little less so, but that's really what it is. Quote
Asuka Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 (...) but sometimes (and I have to confess guilty myself here) I'm feeling a bit of insincere friendlinnes towards people with really crappy MOCs and people still give them compliments. Everyone to his own likeness, but for me even the crapiest MOC is, somehow, an expression of interest in a very nice and creative hobby and I can easily give some respect to it.... :-D So, if you, Chuck, are ready to show some respect, not especially to the MOC, but to the person behind it, I sense no troubles at all. *sweet* I Quote
Norro Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 I agree with you; He is a superb builder, very skillful, and it's kind of this: 'I'm the best, and since I'm the best, I can say whatever I want to you unskillful woefully underpayed temps!' :-P Ok, maybe a little less so, but that's really what it is. That's a little harsh, mind you I don't read all the space stuff... God Bless, Nathan Quote
SirNadroj Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 So, if you, Chuck, are ready to show some respect, not especially to the MOC, but to theperson behind it, I sense no troubles at all. *sweet* Well, you vicariously don't show respect to the builder if you don't show respect to the MOC, right? ;-) I have had a run in with Mr. Chuck. While he's trashed my MOC once or twice (which I am as good a buildier as he is, we just have different styles) I have been personally offended. Does that makes sense, I'm not sure. 8-| Chuck, when people spend a lot of time on something, and a lot of money also (I've spent hundreds upon hundreds upon hundreds of dollars on bulk peices) it doesn't feel good at all. |-/ But I'm very happy that you've taken a turn for the better! *sweet* That takes a special person to apologize to the whole community! *y* Thank you! *sweet* Quote
Norro Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Well, you vicariously don't show respect to the builder if you don't show respect to the MOC, right? ;-) Pulling us way off topic... I disagree. I respect people, I like people. That doesn't necessarily mean I will (or oblige me too) respect their MOC. Example, I respect a 7 year old kid, He or she has a lot of potential, a lot of talent, etc. But when I see a MOC I may not care for it (regardless of time/money spent). I won't be rude (I hope I never have been), but while encouraging them I still don't have to respect the MOC... God Bless, Nathan (this rant has bee building... X-D ) Quote
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